The Proof is in the Pudding

I’ve been spending a fair bit of time lately in careful consideration of the relationships in my life. I have come to believe with certainty that, as the saying goes, “the proof IS in the pudding”. What I mean is that actions speak louder than words. To put it another way… talk is cheap.

You’ve heard it said that we must walk the talk. I hear that a lot in my new business endeavour. People are very quick to condemn others who give advice but are not willing to take it themselves. But really, we all have a responsibility to do and mean what we say, regardless of our occupation or other life status. This is integrity. And, instead of condemning those who don't, we should take a quick look in the mirror and assess our own contribution to the lives of those around us.

The Golden Rule is one we are all taught as children and one which comes to mind as I write this morning. If you do unto to others as you would have them do unto you, you will be operating from and open heart and with awareness of the implications of your thoughts, words and deeds. Choose wisely, I suggest. Be deliberate.

This week, I have been the fortunate recipient of a number of referrals by friends who are recommending my services to others – speaking, workshops, coaching, consulting… and personal companionship! Yes, it appears as though I have an abundance of people in my life who want me to be successful at home, at work, at play and at peace. I am truly blessed.

What about you? Is there someone in your life to whom you wish ‘all the happiness in the world’? If so, what exactly are you doing to help them create it? If you think that there is nothing you can do, think again. You can be a champion for that person; you can be their biggest fan in thought, word and deed. Think about what you would like someone to do to help you… and do it for someone else. Imagine the impact!

Helping others create and execute their vision of success is my mission as a Professional Motivator. I will commit, in my daily life, to demonstrate this in all that I do. If you aren’t sure what you can do, ask! I’d love to hear of your progress.